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Thursday, November 20, 2008

12 Tips for Muslim Youth






Why should you, a young Muslim, be helping to bring your friends closer to Allah?
After all, you've got your own struggles to deal with: trying to explain why you pray to hostile teachers, Hijab
discrimination, standing up in class when the professor attacks Islam, dealing with parents who think you've gone nuts
because you're growing a beard, or all the other difficulties faced by a number of practicing Muslim youth?
Islam was never meant to be an individualistic faith, reserved for the "chosen few". Muslims have a duty to spread the
Deen, and practicing Muslim youth, whether beginners, activists or leaders have a crucial role to play.
"Allah has put them in a position that perhaps no one else is in," notes Sheema Khan, former Muslim Youth of North
America (MYNA) advisor for eastern Canada. "They have the means to communicate with their peers, they have an
understanding of what they're going through plus they have the guidance of Islam."
Who is your childhood friend, who would rather spend Fridays at MacDonald's than the Masjid, or your classmate who is
Muslim in name and only knows that "Muslims don't eat pork" going to listen to: the nice Imam of the Masjid who would
freak out if he saw the way they were dressed and talked or you who may have grown up with them, joked with them, or
see them everyday in school?

The answer is obvious: you.
Don't panic. Here are some tips and advice which can help from other Muslims, many of whom have been there and
done that:
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Tip #1: Make your intention sincere
All work we do should ideally be for the sake of Allah. That includes the task of bringing someone closer to Allah. That of
course means this should not be connected to arrogance, thinking you're the teacher and everyone else should be lucky
you've embarked on a crusade to save them. Guidance is from Allah. Make Dua and make sincere efforts and remember
Allah can also misguide you if He wills (we seek refuge in Allah from that).
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Tip #2: Practice what you preach
Not practicing what you preach is wrong and you will lose the confidence of anyone, young or old, once they figure you
out. Don't do it

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Tip #3: Use the Qur'an and Seerah (biography of the Prophet) as Dawa guides
Read and understand those chapters of the Qur'an which talk about how the Prophets presented the message of Islam
to their people. Read the Seerah (for some good Seerah books) to see especially how the Prophet Muhammad (peace
and blessings be upon him) brought Islam to so many different people, including young people.
As well, talk to Dawa workers, and check out books that have been written on introducing dawa to non Muslims
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Tip #4: Talk to people as if you really don't know them
Don't assume you know someone just by looking at them. You don't know that the Muslim girl in your homeroom who
walks through the school's hallways as if they were fashion show catwalks is not someone you can talk to about Allah
because she looks like a snob. Or that the Muslim guy who you've never seen at Jumah at your university is a "bad
Muslim". Maybe he was never really taught Islam and has no idea what importance Friday prayers have in Islam,
especially for Muslim men.

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Tip #5: Smile
Did you know the Prophet was big on smiling? But many "practicing" Muslims seem to have "their faces on upside down"
as one speaker once said-frowning and serious.
Smiling, being polite and kind are all part of the manners of the Prophet, which we must exercise in our daily lives. If we
want to approach others with Islam, we have to make ourselves approachable. Smiling is key to this.

But note that being approachable does not mean being flirtations with the other gender. There are Islamic rules for how
men and women should deal with each other which have to be respected. Dawa is no excuse to have long and private
conversations and meetings with the other sex, for example. Set up a system where someone expressing an interest in
Islam is referred to someone of the same sex.
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Tip #6: Take the initiative and hang out with them
Take the first step and invite someone you may have spoken to a couple of times to sit at lunch together, to check out a
hockey game or invite them over for Iftar in Ramadan. Also, share difficulties, sorrows and frustrations. Help with
homework, be a shoulder to cry on when depression hits, or just plain listen when your friend is upset, discuss common
problems and KEEP THEIR SECRETS. There are few things as annoying as a snitch and backstabber. But an important
note: if the problem is of a serious nature, (i.e. your friend is thinking of committing suicide or is taking drugs), notify and
consult an adult immediately.

Tip #7: Show them Islam is relevant today, right here, right now
Young people may think Islam is too "old fashioned" and not in tune with the modern age. Prove this wrong. Show how
Islam is really about relating to Allah, which any human being can do, anywhere, anytime. Allah is always closer to you
than your jugular vein and He hears and knows everything. Encourage friends to ask Allah's help during tests, exams,
and in dealing with problems at home with parents and siblings. Also point out how Islam relates to teenagers: Islam
gives you focus and an understanding of who you are and where you are going, which most of "teen culture" does not.
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Tip #8: Get them involved in volunteer work with you
If you are already involved in the community, get your friend to help out. Ask them to make a flyer for one of your youth
group's events or brainstorm for ideas about activities to hold this school year. This involvement makes them feel part of
the Muslim community and deepens your friendship, since you are now working together on something beneficial for both
of you. Make sure you thank them for their contribution.
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Tip #9: Ask them 4 fundamental questions
As your friendship develops, you will notice the topics you discuss may become more serious. You may be discussing,
for instance, future goals and plans. Khan recommends four questions to ask that can steer the topic to Allah and Islam:
a. Where am I going in life and what would make me really happy deep down inside?
b. What do I believe?
c. Who should I be grateful to?
d. Did I get to where I am today without the help of anyone?
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Tip #10: Emphasize praying five times a day before any other aspect of Islam
A person's main connection with Allah, on a daily basis, is through the prayer five times a day. Don't emphasize any
other aspect of Islam until your friend starts making a real effort to pray five times a day. Emphasize the direct connection
one has with Allah in prayer. If they are facing a problem, tell them to pray, and to ask Allah for help in Salah and outside
this time. When possible, make it a point to pray together during your "hang out time". If your friend begins to pray, that is
the first step to other aspects of Islam like giving up swearing, treating parents with respect or dressing Islamically.
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Tip# 11: Help instil confidence in adults
Adults, like Bart Simpson's dad Homer, are considered bumbling idiots in the eyes of "teen culture". Your job as a young
Muslim is to help turn the tables on this false and unIslamic belief. All you have to do is this: when a Muslim adult does
something good (i.e. saving someone's life, donating money to a worthy cause, the Imam gives a good speech, taking
good care of his/her family) bring it up in the course of your conversations with your friend and praise the adult in
question. Doing this regularly may not only change your friend's perspective, but could lead to them seeing their own
parents in a more respectful way.
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Tip #12: Support them even when they become more practicing
Remember, just because a person starts practicing Islam more regularly, this does not mean everything will be okay from
this point onwards. There will still be hard times, difficulties. There may be times when your friend may have doubts
about his or her newfound practice of Islam. Be there to reassure them.

Contributed by Abu Farhan
Friday, 21 March 2008
Last Updated Sunday, 23 March 2008
[www.missionislam. com]

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